My husband is a true Carioca and, therefore, has his soccer team. There are 4 club teams in Rio de Janeiro: Botafogo, Vasco, Flamengo, and Fluminense. My husband is Botafogo and so am I. Yes, since I did not have a team, I married into one and my children were born into one. If they should want to switch teams later in life, they may also have to switch Fathers.
So imagine my husband's surprise when I announced that I was enrolling our 4 yr old son into soccer class. I had hardly gotten the last syllable of the word 'class' out of my mouth when he declared that it MUST be with the Botafogo club.
That's all well and good. I totally get where he's coming from. There's a much larger chance of our son switching teams if he is playing for and friends with people from another team. I hear you Mr. Rant and it is duly noted.
But it's not going to happen. It's just not practical. When I mentioned that, I was huffed. Oh yes, my husband huffed and puffed and attempted to blow down my logic. So wasn't going to happen. But I'm a fair player and I informed him that if he'd like to be late to work twice a week so he could load up our son in the car and drive him to practice, go for it. I, on the other hand, was going to pick a team in walking distance from my place.
Walking distance, I'm all about it these days. I blame city life and good weather.
Anyway, he was somewhat accepting over the idea of our son practicing at the Fluminense club. It's around the corner from our place and we are members, only because it means a pool on hot days. That and Fluminense is not a threat. No offense Flu supporters.
But something happened on the way to making that happen. I was invited by a friend to have my son try out beach soccer, also near our place. Well, that just sounds like a hell of a lot more fun than regular soccer, plus my little one would actually be able to play around on the beach while we watched. Score!
Imagine my husband's surprise when I informed him that I had found a team my son likes and it's, deep breath, sponsored by Flamengo! For those of you who don't know, Flamengo is to the other Rio teams as the Isrealis are to the Palestinians. Sorry honey, we left the Gaza strip for soccer practice. So wrong, I know.
And it's not just my husband! I know my pediatrician's team, the school teacher's team, and basically anyone else in this country that I've spoken to for longer than a minute and a half.
Soccer is a way of life here. Even if you don't actively watch, I'd say 99% have a team they at least say they support.
As for my husband and the beach soccer team, he came and watched the other day. He saw how happy our boy was out there. It got the thumbs up. Because, let's be honest, if there's one thing that makes a Brazilian Dad prouder than his soccer team, it's his kid playing soccer.
