A lot of women have a problem with porn. I am not one of them. Personally, I don't have an issue with my husband enjoying it. You'd have to be delusional to believe a man who says, oh no, I really don't like porn. Think about it. He's saying, oh no I really don't like watching naked women having sex... Yeah, I don't believe them.
In my experience, Brazilian women have a tendency to be quite jealous about these kind of video friends. One friend of mine exclaimed, why does he need porn when he has me! That is the sentiment I, and my husband in the past, have gotten from most Brazilian women.
He's got me? Why does he need it?
First off, I do not look like that. Ohhhh, not even close. Secondly, I will not do that, nor that, and I really don't even want to watch them doing that. I'm a little curious about that other one but I wouldn't know where to get the equipment...
Anyway, my question is, is porn a deal breaker? I'm living in a country where, apparently, 70% of husbands cheat, they sell porn next to kiddie magazines at the newsstands, and hookers are legal. Yes, you can legally be a hooker here, just not a john.
I think the whole Brazilian my-husband-is-not-into-porn-but-real-women thing goes right along with the my husband doesn't cheat thing. If you insist hard enough on something, it must be true, right?
That being said, American men are FAR beating out (pun intended) the Brazilians when it comes to porn usage. Maybe that's why I don't find my husband's healthy use a big deal. Not like the stuff is popping up all over the apartment and my son is asking me what a butt plug is.
It's one of those at it's time and place and within reason things. I would not be ok if Mr. Rant was hopping off to the bathroom during babysitting duty to watch a little Anal Sex in the City and whack one off. Not ok. But to do it at a grownup time, go for it. And it can't be an obsession. It's not kosher to not be able to download pics from your trip to the beach because you or your spouse has just downloaded the new Big Bang Theory porn edition.
And let's be honest for a minute, we don't live in a squeaky clean entertainment world. As much as I love the dialog on True Blood, it's not the main reason I watch. Naked Eric is! And I'm sure naked Sookie is making my husband just as happy. We're people, we're curious, and everyone likes a little eye candy.
So how about you? Are you ok with your spouse, loved one, significant other, cat, or whatever you call them watching the horizontal Olympics? Why or why not?
